Who to Pray To

It is stated specifically in Matthew 6:6 who all Christians should pray to.  But Matthew 6:5-15 tells us not only who to pray to but what to pray and why.


Matthew 6:5-15

5 “And when you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. 6 But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. 7 And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathen do. For they think that they will be heard for their many words.

8 “Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him. 9 In this manner, therefore, pray:

     Our Father in heaven,

     Hallowed be Your name.

10      Your kingdom come.

     Your will be done

     On earth as it is in heaven.

11      Give us this day our daily bread.

12     And forgive us our debts,

     As we forgive our debtors.

13      And do not lead us into temptation,

     But deliver us from the evil one.

     For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.

14 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

Commentary: 6:5-15 (Luke 11:2-4). Jesus then spoke about the practice of prayer, which the Pharisees loved to perform publicly. Rather than making prayer a matter between an individual and God, the Pharisees had turned it into an act to be seen by men—again, to demonstrate their supposed righteousness. Their prayers were directed not to God but to other men, and consisted of long, repetitive phrases (Matt. 6:7).

Jesus condemned such practices. Prayer should be addressed to your Father, who is unseen (cf. John 1:18; 1 Tim. 1:17) and who knows what you need (Matt. 6:8); it is not “to be seen by men.” But Jesus also presented a model prayer for His disciples to follow. This prayer is commonly called “the Lord’s Prayer,” but it is actually “the disciples’ prayer.” This prayer, which is repeated by many Christians, contains elements that are important for all praying: (1) Prayer is to begin with worship. God is addressed as Our Father in heaven. Worship is the essence of all prayer. (In vv. 1-18 Jesus used the word “Father” 10 times! Only those who have true inner righteousness can address God in that way in worship.) (2) Reverence is a second element of prayer, for God’s name is to be hallowed, that is, revered (hagiasthētō). (3) The desire for God’s kingdom—Your kingdom come—is based on the assurance that God will fulfill all His covenant promises to His people. (4) Prayer is to include the request that His will be accomplished today on earth as it is being accomplished in heaven, that is, fully and willingly. (5) Petition for personal needs such as daily food is also to be a part of prayer. “Daily” means “sufficient for today.” (6) Requests regarding spiritual needs, such as forgiveness, are included too. This implies that the petitioner has already forgiven those who had offended him. Sins (cf. Luke 11:4), as moral debts, reveal one’s shortcomings before God. (7) Believers recognize their spiritual weakness as they pray for deliverance from temptation to evil (cf. James 1:13-14).

Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:14-15 explain His statement about forgiveness in verse 12. Though God’s forgiveness of sin is not based on one’s forgiving others, a Christian’s forgiveness is based on realizing he has been forgiven (cf. Eph. 4:32). Personal fellowship with God is in view in these verses (not salvation from sin). One cannot walk in fellowship with God if he refuses to forgive others.


So what have we learned?

We have learned:

  1. We should pray in a quiet place, such as by going into your room and shutting the door.
  2. We pray to the Father who is in a secret place.
  3. When you pray, do not use vain repetitions.
  4. You may pray the Lord’s prayer or whatever is on your heart or both.
  5. Forgive men their trespasses and your heavenly Father will also forgive you.


The elements of prayer are to worship with:

  1. Reverence
  2. Desire for God’s kingdom
  3. That His will be accomplished today on earth as it is being accomplished in heaven, fully and willingly.
  4. Petition for personal needs.
  5. Requests regarding spiritual needs, such as forgiveness.
  6. Prayer for deliverance from temptation to evil.
  7. Pray to, “Our Father in heaven” or “Father in heaven”, because it shows specifically who we are showing reverence to and leaves no doubt


These seven things above have just spoken about he Lord’s Prayer.

If you do these things in prayer on a regular basis, God will not only know you but will love you for your reverence, honor, goodness and humility.


Always keep Jesus in your heart and on your mind.

God is testing us every day and has given us the right to make our own choices. Do you know which ones are the right choices in Gods mind?

Fear God, love God, honor God, and trust God with all your heart, mind and soul and you will receive and experience the joy of the promises of God’s blessings in His time.


Prayer:  Father in heaven, I praise You for Your Son and the Holy Spirit. I praise You for Your grace in sending us Your wisdom about “Who to Pray To.”  Please bless each one who has read this article for they too are seeking Your righteous truth, love, wisdom and understanding.

I pray that everyone who has read this article will have His heart touched by the Spirit and will be able to see in his mind and realize in his heart that which You have so graciously offered him.

May God, Jesus, The Holy Spirit and Christianity be our guiding lights, our safety nets and our inspiration for loving happiness in all of Your kingdom. Father into your hands I commend my spirit. Not my will, but Yours be done. Please come Lord Jesus.

I pray in Jesus sweet name and to His glory and to the power of The Holy Spirit,